Perfectly Imperfect Me 365
I am a Licensed DBT Psychotherapist, a mom, wife, sister, daughter, & much more & am far from perfect! In my podcast I share how perfectly imperfect I am through my flaws that I've learned to embrace. I call them "flawesome" because they're an awesome part of me. It's raw, unedited, a work in progress & touches on a little of everything that I've experienced in my professional & personal life. I started this podcast as a way to help others learn a thing or two about accepting things as they are, building mastery & loving oneself just as they are...perfeclty imperfect!
Episodes
2 hours ago
2 hours ago
In this solo episode, Rachel, licensed psychotherapist, dives into the differences between panic attacks and anxiety attacks. She shares her personal experiences and provides clear insights into what’s happening in your mind and body during these intense moments. Listeners will gain a deeper understanding of why these experiences can feel overwhelming and learn how to distinguish one from the other.
Rachel also offers practical strategies to help manage anxiety attacks in real time. From calming breathing techniques to grounding exercises, she equips listeners with tools to regain control and feel more centered when anxiety strikes. This episode is a guide for anyone looking to better understand their mental health, take control of their anxiety, and approach their well-being with compassion and confidence.
The podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.
3 days ago
3 days ago
In this episode, Rachel speaks from the heart as she reflects on the tragic shooting at a Hanukkah celebration in Bondi Beach, Australia—a place deeply personal to her and now forever marked by heartbreaking loss. What happened hits close to home, and Rachel shares her emotional response to the tragedy while acknowledging the pain felt by so many around the world.
This conversation goes beyond the headlines. Rachel addresses the rise of anti-Semitism and extremism, while emphasizing an essential truth: extremists do not represent entire faiths or communities. She calls for courage over silence, unity over division, and compassion over fear—urging listeners to stand against all forms of discrimination and to support both Jewish and Muslim communities in the shared fight against hate, terrorism, and violence. This episode is a powerful reminder of our shared humanity and a call to choose understanding, solidarity, and peace.
The podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.
Wednesday Dec 17, 2025
Wednesday Dec 17, 2025
In this episode: Marcus Smith II shares his journey from being a first-round NFL Draft pick to quietly battling anxiety, depression, and the loss of identity outside of football. We explore the immense pressure athletes face to perform, the culture of silence around mental health, and how those unspoken struggles nearly cost Marcus his life. Through therapy, vulnerability, and the courage to stop hiding, Marcus began to heal and redefine what success truly means. This conversation is a powerful reminder that mental wellness is not just about surviving, but about reconnecting with who you truly are.
Meet my guest: Marcus Smith II is a former first-round NFL Draft pick who played for the Philadelphia Eagles, Seattle Seahawks, and Washington Commanders. After facing his own mental health challenges, Marcus turned his personal pain into purpose and has become a leading voice in athlete mental wellness. Today, he works with professional sports organizations, college and high school programs, and corporate leaders to promote emotional resilience, mindfulness, and sustainable high performance. Through his work and storytelling, Marcus helps people drop the mask, build self-awareness, and understand that true strength begins with honesty.
You can find more about Marcus’s journey here: https://marcussmithii.com/
If you’re an athlete check out https://www.athletes.org/
If you’re an athlete struggling reach out to: https://apn.com/
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Wednesday Dec 10, 2025
Wednesday Dec 10, 2025
In this heartfelt conversation, Rachel speaks with Bryan and Danielle Docobo, a couple who have turned their personal tragedy into a mission of advocacy for rare disease families. Their boys, Liam and Ethan were both diagnosed with a rare genetic condition known as Coats Plus Syndrome by a team at Joe DiMaggio Children's Hospital. They share their journey of navigating grief after the loss of their son Ethan, while also fighting for the health of their other son, Liam. The couple discusses the importance of community support, spirituality, and finding meaning in their loss as they work to raise awareness and funds for research. Their story is one of resilience, love, and the power of turning grief into action.
To learn more about Coats Plus Syndrome and ways you can donate, you can reach out to Bryan@coatsplusfoundation.com
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Wednesday Dec 03, 2025
Wednesday Dec 03, 2025
In this episode, Rachel talks about the emotional toll of denying who you are or who you love—and the quiet, often unseen ways it impacts your mental health. This is a gentle, honest conversation about the cost of hiding, the weight of shame, and why living out of alignment with yourself can lead to anxiety, depression, loneliness, and disconnection.
Together, we unpack:
why authenticity is a core psychological need
how chronic hiding creates stress, fear, and hypervigilance
the grief that comes from editing parts of yourself to stay accepted
what begins to heal when you finally step into your truth
This episode isn’t about labels or politics—it’s about humanity, compassion, and the right we all have to live a life that fits. If you’ve ever felt like you couldn’t show up as your full self, or you’ve carried the quiet heaviness of hiding who you love or what you feel, this conversation is for you.
You deserve space to breathe.You deserve relationships where you’re seen.You deserve to exist as your whole, unedited self.
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Wednesday Nov 26, 2025
Wednesday Nov 26, 2025
✨ In this episode, we dive into the science and soul of KINDNESS — how it changes your mood, your relationships, and your entire emotional landscape.
I’m also sharing something personal: my Rise & Renew Weekend Retreat, where I spent three days with 12 incredible women who reminded me just how powerful kindness, connection, and community can be. Their presence, honesty, and openness turned the retreat into a space of real healing and renewal.
We’ll explore:
💛 How kindness affects your brain and nervous system
💛 Why small acts of compassion can instantly shift your mood
💛 What happens when women show up for one another with honesty and care
💛 How kindness can be a realistic daily practice — not a massive effort
💛 What I learned from witnessing 12 women embrace peace, rest, and renewal
Kindness isn’t just something we “do” — it’s something we create, and it changes everything.
If you’re overwhelmed, anxious, or craving connection… this episode will feel like a breath you’ve been needing.
🎧 Listen, breathe, receive.
And if this episode resonates, don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe. 💛
Check Out https://kindnessmatters365.org/
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Wednesday Nov 19, 2025
Wednesday Nov 19, 2025
Ever catch yourself jumping in to fix everyone’s problems… then getting mad when no one changes? Or feeling powerless and wondering why life keeps happening to you? Welcome to the Drama Triangle — where the Victim, Rescuer, and Persecutor take turns running your relationships into the ground.
In this episode, I share what my own therapist pointed out to me this week (spoiler: I was deep in the rescuer role 🙃), and we unpack what Diane Zimberoff calls “the victim trap” — the cycle that keeps people stuck, resentful, and disconnected.
We’ll talk about:• How each role secretly maintains the chaos• Why rescuing isn’t kindness — it’s control in disguise• How to recognize when you’re sliding into the triangle• Concrete ways to step out and build healthier, more balanced connections
If you’ve ever felt drained from “helping,” blamed for everything, or trapped in the same emotional loops — this one’s going to hit.
Because the moment you stop rescuing, blaming, or surrendering your power… that’s the moment you actually get it back.
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The podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.
Monday Nov 10, 2025
Monday Nov 10, 2025
The holidays are coming — and with them, a whole storm of emotions, expectations, and family chaos wrapped in shiny paper. In this episode, I’m breaking down why the holidays hit so hard for so many of us (hint: it’s not just the in-laws or the turkey), and how to handle it with real, evidence-based tools that actually work.
We’ll talk about:🎄 Why family dynamics resurface the second you walk through the door🧠 How anxiety, grief, and guilt show up during “the most wonderful time of the year”💬 How to set boundaries without drowning in shame✨ DBT skills like STOPP, DEAR MAN, and Radical Acceptance to keep you grounded❤️ And most importantly — how to treat yourself with compassion when it all feels too much
This isn’t your typical “stay positive” holiday pep talk — it’s an honest, funny, and real conversation about surviving the season with your sanity (and self-respect) intact.
If the holidays make you want to hide in your car between family events, this episode’s for you.
🎧 Listen now and get your emotional toolkit ready for the chaos — one deep breath at a time.
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The podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.
Thursday Oct 30, 2025
Thursday Oct 30, 2025
In this episode, we chat with Kat, a survivor of domestic violence, PTSD, and single motherhood at 16.
She opens the doors on trauma and shines the light on the hidden scars of emotional and psychological abuse.
She speaks with raw honesty about the lasting impact of trauma, the power of boundaries, and how self-worth plays a critical role in healing.
Through her personal story, she challenges audiences to rethink what they know about abusive relationships and foster a deeper understanding of the complexities survivors face.
A sought-after speaker for colleges, healthcare professionals, and law enforcement, she equips you with the knowledge to support survivors and create meaningful change.
Check her out at www.the-lotus-effect.com and be sure to subscribe to her podcast, Real Chat with Kat on your listening platforms.
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Wednesday Oct 22, 2025
Wednesday Oct 22, 2025
In this episode of Perfectly Imperfect Me 365, Rachel explores the cultural phenomenon of burnout, discussing its origins, impacts, and coping strategies. She emphasizes that burnout is not a personal failure but a societal issue that many face. The conversation delves into the unhealthy coping mechanisms people often resort to and highlights healthier strategies for recovery, including radical acceptance and reconnecting with personal values. Rachel encourages listeners to cultivate awareness of their burnout and take small steps towards recovery.#burnout #culturalphenomenon #copingstrategies #mentalhealth #selfcare #emotionalexhaustion #awareness #recovery #values #DBTskillsFollow me for more real, relatable mental health support:Instagram: https://instagram.com/rachelblogglcswTikTok: https://tiktok.com/@rachelwbloggFacebook: https://facebook.com/rachelbloggLCSWYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RachelBlogg-LCSWThe podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.
Wednesday Oct 15, 2025
Wednesday Oct 15, 2025
In this episode of Perfectly Imperfect Me, Rachel discusses the common misconception that motivation is the key to taking action. She explains that motivation is a fleeting feeling rather than a reliable behavior. Instead of waiting for motivation to strike, Rachel offers practical strategies to overcome procrastination and get started on tasks, emphasizing the importance of breaking tasks down into smaller steps, validating oneself, and creating a supportive environment for action.Follow me for more real, relatable mental health support:Instagram: https://instagram.com/rachelblogglcswTikTok: https://tiktok.com/@rachelwbloggFacebook: https://facebook.com/rachelbloggLCSWYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RachelBlogg-LCSWThe podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional, medical or mental health advice.
Tuesday Oct 07, 2025
Tuesday Oct 07, 2025
In this episode, Rachel explores the cultural discourse surrounding Taylor Swift's latest album, addressing the polarized interpretations of her lyrics. She emphasizes the importance of dialectical thinking, advocating for the ability to hold multiple truths simultaneously rather than succumbing to binary thinking. Rachel critiques the societal tendency to label cultural figures as either conservative or liberal, arguing that this oversimplification stifles meaningful dialogue and understanding. She encourages listeners to embrace complexity and nuance in both music and broader societal issues.Follow me for more real, relatable mental health support:Instagram: https://instagram.com/rachelblogglcswTikTok: https://tiktok.com/@rachelwbloggFacebook: https://facebook.com/rachelbloggLCSWYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RachelBlogg-LCSWThe podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.#TaylorSwift #conservativepipeline #Thelifeofashowgirl
Tuesday Oct 07, 2025
Tuesday Oct 07, 2025
Trigger warning: frank talk about self-harm and suicidal thoughts. In this fast-paced, honest episode I sit with you like a friend and a DBT therapist to explain why people with Borderline Personality Disorder engage in self-harm, how to spot the difference between coping behavior and suicidal intent, and practical, compassionate ways to help—whether you’re the person struggling or someone who loves them. Includes quick DBT tools, a safety-plan script, and clear guidance on when to reach for emergency help. (If you’re in immediate danger, call emergency services or, in the U.S., call/text 988.)The episode concludes with a reminder of the importance of compassion and understanding in addressing mental health issues.takeawaysSelf-harm is often a misunderstood survival skill.Many believe self-harm is attention-seeking, which is a misconception.Self-harm communicates emotional pain that words cannot express.Offering connection and compassion is more effective than judgment.Grounding techniques can help manage urges to self-harm.DBT is an effective therapy for BPD and self-harm.Self-harm is a temporary coping mechanism, not a sign of being broken.Building a fulfilling life is essential for recovery.Talking about self-harm without shame can lead to change.Support is crucial; individuals do not have to face this alone.👉 If you’re struggling right now: You are not alone. Please reach out for support — call or text 988 (in the U.S.), or look up your local crisis line.Safety Plan Template: https://rachelwrites3.gumroad.com/l/telrqjGrounding Kit Cheat sheet: https://rachelwrites3.gumroad.com/l/vuwpaDisclaimer & Terms of UseThis resource is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for therapy, counseling, medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Downloading or using this material does not establish a therapist-client relationship with the creator.If you are experiencing a mental health crisis or thinking about suicide, please call your local emergency number immediately. In the U.S., you can dial or text 988 for the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline.By downloading this resource, you agree that:You will use it for personal use only and not distribute, modify, or sell it without permission.You understand that the creator assumes no liability for how you choose to use the material.You are responsible for your own safety and well-being, and you should seek professional support when needed.Follow me for more real, relatable mental health support:Instagram: https://instagram.com/rachelblogglcswTikTok: https://tiktok.com/@rachelwbloggFacebook: https://facebook.com/rachelbloggLCSWYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RachelBlogg-LCSWThe podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.
Wednesday Sep 24, 2025
Wednesday Sep 24, 2025
In this episode, Rachel discusses the phenomenon of religious psychosis and extreme apocalyptic beliefs, particularly in the context of the failed doomsday prediction for September 23rd. She explores the psychological and emotional fallout for families affected by these beliefs, including financial instability, generational trauma, and mental health issues. Rachel also offers coping strategies for those dealing with loved ones in such states, emphasizing the importance of acceptance, boundaries, and support.TakeawaysSome people genuinely believed this would be the end of the world.Religious psychosis occurs when faith-based ideas detach from reality.Extreme beliefs can lead to financial chaos and emotional turmoil.Families experience broken trust and fear due to apocalyptic beliefs.The long-term consequences include financial instability and generational trauma.Mental health issues like depression and anxiety can arise from these beliefs.Coping strategies include radical acceptance and setting boundaries.It's important to connect with others for support during crises.Doomsday prophecies often lead to repeated cycles of belief and disappointment.Resilience is key in rebuilding after such experiences.Follow me for more real, relatable mental health support:Instagram: https://instagram.com/rachelblogglcswTikTok: https://tiktok.com/@rachelwbloggFacebook: https://facebook.com/rachelbloggLCSWYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RachelBlogg-LCSWThe podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.
Wednesday Sep 17, 2025
Wednesday Sep 17, 2025
Borderline Personality Disorder is one of the most misunderstood and stigmatized mental health diagnoses out there. In this episode, I’m breaking down the biggest myths—like “people with BPD are manipulative,” “BPD is untreatable,” or “they’re just attention-seeking”—and explaining why these stereotypes are flat-out wrong.As a DBT therapist, I’ll walk you through what’s really going on beneath the surface, how BPD actually shows up, and why recovery is possible. Whether you’re living with BPD, love someone who has it, or just want to better understand the disorder without all the stigma, this episode will give you compassion, clarity, and hope.Follow me for more real, relatable mental health support:Instagram: https://instagram.com/rachelblogglcswTikTok: https://tiktok.com/@rachelwbloggFacebook: https://facebook.com/rachelbloggLCSWYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RachelBlogg-LCSWFlorida Borderline Personality Disorder Association Hope for BPD - for families https://www.hopeforbpd.comThe podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.
Wednesday Sep 10, 2025
Wednesday Sep 10, 2025
In today's episode, we're going to unpack the Sadia Khan scandal and use it to discuss a wider problem: when influencer brands borrow clinical language, how does that harm clients and licensed professionals? We'll will give you practical tips for verifying credentials and protecting your mental health online. Rachel is talking about allegations reported in public sources — not claiming any court or regulator has convicted anyone here. 🔗 Show Notes & Resources📰 News SourcesIndia Times – Sadia Khan dating coach controversy: Viral voice note sparks cheating claims — Coverage of the affair allegations and leaked audio fueling the current drama.Primetimer – Profile on Sadia Khan — Background on her brand, social media following, and positioning as a dating coach.✅ Verify Credentials (UK & US)HCPC Misuse of Title — Why certain psychology titles are legally protected in the UK.HCPC Register — Search the official UK register to confirm if someone is a practitioner psychologist.British Psychological Society – Protected Titles — Explanation of what titles mean and who can use them.APA Services – State Psychology Licensing Boards — U.S. listeners: find your state board and check licenses.📊 Research & Guidance on MisinformationAPA – How to Address Misinformation About Mental Health — Tools for clinicians and consumers to spot false claims.BMJ Mental Health – Systematic Review of Mental Health Misinformation on Social Media — Evidence on how common and harmful online misinformation is.🧭 Coaching Industry & BoundariesInternational Coaching Federation – Ethics & Professional Standards — Shows the limits of regulation in coaching.BPS Division of Coaching Psychology — Guidance on keeping coaching and therapy distinct.👉 If you want to protect yourself when looking for help online: check the registers, ask for evidence, and don’t confuse charisma with credentials.If this episode helped you think more critically about who you follow for mental-health advice, share it. If you’re a clinician who’s seeing the fallout of influencer misinformation in your practice, DM me — I want to hear your stories for a future episode.Follow me for more real, relatable mental health support:Instagram: https://instagram.com/rachelblogglcswTikTok: https://tiktok.com/@rachelwbloggFacebook: https://facebook.com/rachelbloggLCSWYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RachelBlogg-LCSWThe podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.
Wednesday Sep 03, 2025
Wednesday Sep 03, 2025
Nobody warns you about the chapter of life where the roles flip—when your parent becomes the one who needs you. In this episode, I share my own story of navigating life as an adult child caring for my dad: the late-night hospital calls, the constant “clean up crew” work of canceling scams and subscriptions he never needed, and the emotional rollercoaster of balancing his independence with his safety.It’s raw, messy, and sometimes even a little funny—because if you don’t laugh about being on hold with customer service for the fifth time this week, you’ll cry. If you’ve ever felt the weight of parenting your parent, this episode will remind you that you’re not alone, you’re not failing, and it’s okay to admit that this is one of the hardest parts of adulthood.Follow me for more real, relatable mental health support: Instagram: https://instagram.com/rachelblogglcsw TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@rachelwblogg Facebook: https://facebook.com/rachelbloggLCSW YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RachelBlogg-LCSWThe podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.
Tuesday Aug 26, 2025
Tuesday Aug 26, 2025
We’ve all heard people say, “I’m so OCD about my closet” or “I’m OCD about my desk.” But here’s the truth: liking things neat is a preference, not a disorder. In this episode, I break down the real difference between enjoying organization and living with obsessive-compulsive disorder.We’ll talk about what OCD actually is — the cycle of intrusive thoughts and compulsions — and how it can seriously interfere with daily life, relationships, and even something as simple as leaving the house. And we’ll look at why casually using “OCD” as shorthand for tidiness waters down the reality of a serious, often painful mental health condition.If you’ve ever wondered where the line is between quirks and a disorder, this episode will set the record straight.Follow me for more real, relatable mental health support: Instagram: https://instagram.com/rachelblogglcsw TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@yourusername Facebook: https://facebook.com/rachelbloggLCSW YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RachelBlogg-LCSWThe podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.
Wednesday Aug 20, 2025
Wednesday Aug 20, 2025
What happens when you’re the friend who stays home while everyone else leaves for college? This episode dives into the quiet heartbreak of watching your best friends live out their “college dream” while you’re still in your childhood bedroom. We’ll talk about the grief no one acknowledges, the loneliness of feeling left behind, and why staying home doesn’t mean you’re falling behind. If you’ve ever scrolled through your friends’ highlight reels and wondered, “Am I missing out on life?”—this one’s for you.Follow me for more real, relatable mental health support: Instagram: https://instagram.com/rachelblogglcsw TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@yourusername Facebook: https://facebook.com/rachelbloggLCSW YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RachelBlogg-LCSWThe podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.
Wednesday Aug 13, 2025
Wednesday Aug 13, 2025
A real-time mental health crisis is unfolding on TikTok, and the internet can’t look away. In this episode, I break down the viral Kendra saga—her multi-part story about falling in love with her psychiatrist, the sudden involvement of AI “Henry,” and the signs that point to a possible psychotic episode happening in public view.We’ll talk about why watching these breakdowns as “entertainment” is dangerous, how social media algorithms reward the spiral, and the very real harm that comes from enabling someone in crisis—whether you mean to or not. Most importantly, I’ll share what we can actually do as a community when we see something like this online.This isn’t tea. This is someone’s mental health on display. And we have to start handling it differently.Resources mentioned in this episode:988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline (U.S.): Call or text 988Find other crisis lines worldwide: https://findahelpline.com






