Imperfectly Human™

Borderline Personality Disorder gets a lot of hate—and most of it is based on myths, misunderstandings, and TikTok diagnosis drama. In this episode, I’m breaking down what BPD actually is, why people with it are not manipulative monsters, and how to support someone you love who struggles with emotional intensity and fear of abandonment.Whether you’ve got BPD, love someone who does, or just want to stop saying “toxic” every time someone has big feelings—this one's for you.Don't forget to subscribe, follow and rate this episode! Oh yeah, don't forget to share this with someone who really would benefit from listening to it.Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/rachelblogglcswFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/RachelBloggLCSW/YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@RachelBlogg-LCSW

What happens when the house gets quiet... too quiet? When the kids are grown, the schedule slows down, and you’re left wondering, “Who even am I now?”In this episode, I’m talking from both my mom heart and therapist brain about the identity shift that happens when you become an empty nester. We’ll explore the grief, the guilt, the weird freedom — and how to gently rediscover the you underneath it all.Whether you’re in the thick of it or just peeking around the corner at this next chapter, this one’s for you. Come sit with me. Let’s talk about how to make space for your next becoming.Visit me at @rachelblogglcsw and drop the word RESET and I'll give you a special surprise

Ever try to explain how maxed out you feel—and your partner just doesn’t get it? Maybe they hit you with “Just ask for help!” or “Why didn’t you say anything?” and suddenly you’re fantasizing about throwing a sock at their head.This episode is for every mom who feels emotionally invisible, mentally overloaded, and like she’s carrying 97 tabs open in her brain at all times.In this episode, Rachel is breaking down:Why your partner doesn’t see what you’re carryingHow to communicate your overwhelm without sounding like you're blamingWhat to say that actually lands (no sarcasm translator required)How to advocate for yourself without the guiltBecause you deserve to feel seen, supported, and not like you're silently drowning while your partner asks where the ketchup is.🎧 Listen now, and then send it to your partner as a gentle nudge 😉

Feel like you're failing even when you're trying your absolute best? That’s mom guilt talking—and in this episode, I'm calling it out.I'm diving into where mom guilt actually comes from (hint: it’s not your fault), how to spot when it’s taking over, and therapist-approved ways to quiet that inner critic so you can breathe, reset, and show up as the imperfect-but-awesome mom you already are.You don’t need to be everything to everyone. You just need to hear this.👉 Follow me for more real, relatable mental health support:Instagram: https://instagram.com/rachelblogglcswTikTok: https://tiktok.com/@yourusernameFacebook: https://facebook.com/rachelbloggLCSWYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RachelBlogg-LCSW🧠 Want more no-BS mental health tools? Hit follow, leave a review, and share this episode with another mom who needs to know she's not alone.

In this episode, we’re unpacking the sneaky ways social media messes with your mental health—from comparison spirals and perfectionism to dopamine addiction and fake connection. Rachel breaks down the brain science, throws in some truth bombs, and gives you no-BS tools to take your power back. You don’t need to quit cold turkey—but you do need to log off before you lose yourself in the scroll.Ready to unplug (just a little)? Let’s go.

Ever shared something you’re working on in therapy—only to have it thrown back at you later? In this quick, powerful episode, Rachel dives into why people weaponize your healing, how it impacts you, and how to respond when it happens. You’ll learn boundary-setting scripts, mindset shifts, and how to protect your peace without shutting down your growth. Healing is sacred—you deserve to keep it safe.

In this powerful episode, I’m joined by the incredible Sabrina Victoria, who opens up about how she found herself in a narcissistic abusive relationship, the emotional and mental toll it took on her, and—most importantly—how she found the strength to plan her escape and break free.Sabrina shares the raw, unfiltered truth about the red flags she missed, the manipulation she endured, and the moment everything shifted. Today, she’s not just surviving—she’s thriving. She's creator and CEO of Her Nation Global and host of Her Talk Show. Her story is one of resilience, self-discovery, and empowerment.If you've ever struggled in a toxic relationship or know someone who has, this episode is a must-listen. It’s a reminder that healing is possible, and your story isn’t over.🔗 Tune in now and let Sabrina’s journey inspire your own healing and growth. She can be found at www.sabrinavictoria.com

In this episode, Rachel explores the "Window of Tolerance"—a concept that helps us understand how we respond to stress and regulate our emotions. Learn how to recognize when you're in or out of your window, and discover practical strategies to expand your capacity for resilience. Tune in for insights that can help you navigate life's challenges with greater ease!

In this episode, we’re diving deep into a tough but necessary question: Are you always available when it’s convenient for them, or are you in a relationship where love and effort are mutual? Being a convenient love can be emotionally draining, leaving you feeling unworthy and overlooked. But real love isn’t about convenience—it’s about consistency. Tune in as we unpack the signs, the emotional toll, and how to start choosing the love you truly deserve. ❤️✨#Relationships #SelfWorth #EmotionalHealth #Podcast

Working mom life is hard — and putting yourself first feels impossible. In this episode, we dive into why moms struggle to prioritize themselves, debunk the guilt, and share 4 quick wins to reclaim your time (without the mom guilt). Take a breath — you’ve earned it! 🌸💖Want to participate in my 7 day self-care challenge for working moms then click this link. https://rachelwrites3.gumroad.com/l/sjxog?_gl=1*1xxkxp1*_ga*MTIxMjM2MjYxMi4xNzQyMjI2ODIy*_ga_6LJN6D94N6*MTc0MjMzODkxNC40LjEuMTc0MjMzOTA2MS4wLjAuMA..

In this episode, Rachel talks about how aiming for perfectionism as a therapist (or content creator, blogger etc) can interfere with our clinical work and risk missing subtle cues our clients are giving us, leading to ineffectiveness. This may apply to anyone trying to be "the perfect" XYZ.

In episode 26 Rachel talks about how her shame could’ve held her back from returning today!

In this episode, Rachel shares her in the moment emotions during her drive home after dropping her youngest off at college. We'll hear her tears, feel her pain and learn how she managed all the emotions she was experiencing in real time and didn't act on her urges to turn around and go stay with him or bring him home....both emotion mind thinking! If you're a parent and experiencing so many mixed emotions with being an empty nester....you're not alone! Go ahead and listen. Allow your tears to flow if that's what happens! Don't suppress your sadness, proudness, or anxiety because we all need pain in our lives, we just don't need to sit in them or act on them.

In this episode, Rachel uses nonjudgmental thinking and opposite action to "expose" her secret pleasure of watching reality show, Love Island USA season 6. She shares what skills she uses to bring joy into her life and accepting how some people might judge her for it. Rachel wants you to let go of your judgments about your slf and not care about the judgments others might have about you doing something that brings you joy and is aligned with your morals and values.

In this episode, Rachel discusses (and challenges the voice in her head that she hears doubting her ability to create a video podcast) how it's necessary to listen to the voices in your head, and don't let them control you. We all have our own inner dialogue, and it's important to recognize and understand it. The voices in our head are actually our own voices. People tend to listen to the voices that are negative, puts them down and judges them rather than listen to the voice that may lead them to doing what's effective. Remember that you are in control, and you have the power to choose which voice to listen to. Trust your intuition, be kind to yourself, and more importantly, embrace your perfectly imperfect self. Hope you enjoy!

In this episode Rachel discusses the reasons for being consistently inconsistent and some skills she has used to break the cycle of being consistently inconsistent!

In this episode, Rachel shares how she challenges herself when wanting to stop feeling some sort of pain (emotional or physical) and asks herself and her clients an important question that generally helps one evaluate their effort and is this the place they really want to quit at.

In Episode 20, Rachel returns after much time away from the mic and shares how since October 7, 2023, she's felt a lot of negative emotions, particularly sadness and anger and has also experienced many joyful and happy times at the same time. Rachel gets vulnerable by sharing how she experienced many joyful moments and celebrations while a war was going on in Israel and the emotions she felt. Rachel also talks about how it's ok for happiness and sadness to exist at the same time.

In today's Episode, Rachel shares her perfectly imperfect journey through a loss that changed her life 17 years ago to the day. September 20th will always b a day that Rachel experiences sadness and is also a day she brings joy to by using skills and not sitting in her sadness. Grief is something everyone has or will experience at some point in their life and isn't something that can be avoided.

In this episode, Rachel shares how she did something that was challenging for her over the weekend. Rachel discusses how building mastery by doing things that are challenging and not impossible increases her confidence and competency within herself and this can help you too! Want to increase your joy and happiness and feel more confident and competent? Do something challenging today!