Perfectly Imperfect Me 365

We’ve all heard people say, “I’m so OCD about my closet” or “I’m OCD about my desk.” But here’s the truth: liking things neat is a preference, not a disorder. In this episode, I break down the real difference between enjoying organization and living with obsessive-compulsive disorder.We’ll talk about what OCD actually is — the cycle of intrusive thoughts and compulsions — and how it can seriously interfere with daily life, relationships, and even something as simple as leaving the house. And we’ll look at why casually using “OCD” as shorthand for tidiness waters down the reality of a serious, often painful mental health condition.If you’ve ever wondered where the line is between quirks and a disorder, this episode will set the record straight.Follow me for more real, relatable mental health support: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/rachelblogglcsw⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠https://tiktok.com/@yourusername⁠⁠⁠ Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠https://facebook.com/rachelbloggLCSW⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@RachelBlogg-LCSW⁠⁠The podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.

What happens when you’re the friend who stays home while everyone else leaves for college? This episode dives into the quiet heartbreak of watching your best friends live out their “college dream” while you’re still in your childhood bedroom. We’ll talk about the grief no one acknowledges, the loneliness of feeling left behind, and why staying home doesn’t mean you’re falling behind. If you’ve ever scrolled through your friends’ highlight reels and wondered, “Am I missing out on life?”—this one’s for you.Follow me for more real, relatable mental health support: Instagram: ⁠⁠https://instagram.com/rachelblogglcsw⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠https://tiktok.com/@yourusername⁠⁠ Facebook: ⁠⁠https://facebook.com/rachelbloggLCSW⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@RachelBlogg-LCSW⁠The podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.

A real-time mental health crisis is unfolding on TikTok, and the internet can’t look away. In this episode, I break down the viral Kendra saga—her multi-part story about falling in love with her psychiatrist, the sudden involvement of AI “Henry,” and the signs that point to a possible psychotic episode happening in public view.We’ll talk about why watching these breakdowns as “entertainment” is dangerous, how social media algorithms reward the spiral, and the very real harm that comes from enabling someone in crisis—whether you mean to or not. Most importantly, I’ll share what we can actually do as a community when we see something like this online.This isn’t tea. This is someone’s mental health on display. And we have to start handling it differently.Resources mentioned in this episode:988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline (U.S.): Call or text 988Find other crisis lines worldwide: https://findahelpline.com

In this episode of Perfectly Imperfect Me 365, Rachel shares her personal journey with postpartum depression, discussing the confusion, shame, and isolation she felt after the birth of her first son. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing the signs of postpartum depression, seeking help, and taking small steps towards recovery. Rachel also highlights the significance of support systems and the duality of motherhood, acknowledging that it is possible to love your child while also feeling overwhelmed and lost. The episode serves as a reminder that new mothers are not alone in their struggles and encourages them to be gentle with themselves.Follow me for more real, relatable mental health support: Instagram: ⁠https://instagram.com/rachelblogglcsw⁠ TikTok: ⁠https://tiktok.com/@yourusername⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://facebook.com/rachelbloggLCSW⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@RachelBlogg-LCSWThe podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.It's crucial to emphasize that the information provided is not a replacement for the services of a trained therapist, doctor, or other health professional.  #postpartumdepression #mentalhealth #motherhood #support #therapy #moms

Ryn Sloane is a Certified Integrative Healing and Cancer Resilience Guide, and a breast cancer survivor who understands firsthand the invisible battle that begins after treatment ends. She specializes in guiding cancer survivors through the emotional, mental, and spiritual Aftermath of their diagnosis, helping them reclaim their power, identity, and achieve profound wholeness.Through her signature Sloane Healing Method™, Ryn's soul-led approach blends trauma-informed coaching with practical tools for emotional processing and deep self-reclamation, providing a roadmap for living unapologetically beyond cancer. She empowers individuals to move past feeling lost in their bodies and unsure of their future, towards an unshakeable sense of self and purpose.You can find Ryn's work, including her free community Ashes of Courage and her high-impact coaching programs, at https://www.sloanehealing.com.

We all mess up—but what really matters is how we handle it. In this episode, we dive into the power of accountability and how taking responsibility strengthens our relationships, builds trust, and fuels personal growth. We’ll break down why avoiding accountability leads to broken trust, common mistakes when apologizing (yes, we’re looking at those “I’m sorry if” apologies), and how to make real amends. Ready to own up and level up? Let’s talk about it!🎧 Tune in now & let’s chat—DM me your thoughts on Instagram or Tik Tok!

Borderline Personality Disorder gets a lot of hate—and most of it is based on myths, misunderstandings, and TikTok diagnosis drama. In this episode, I’m breaking down what BPD actually is, why people with it are not manipulative monsters, and how to support someone you love who struggles with emotional intensity and fear of abandonment.Whether you’ve got BPD, love someone who does, or just want to stop saying “toxic” every time someone has big feelings—this one's for you.Don't forget to subscribe, follow and rate this episode! Oh yeah, don't forget to share this with someone who really would benefit from listening to it.Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/rachelblogglcswFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/RachelBloggLCSW/YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@RachelBlogg-LCSW

What happens when the house gets quiet... too quiet? When the kids are grown, the schedule slows down, and you’re left wondering, “Who even am I now?”In this episode, I’m talking from both my mom heart and therapist brain about the identity shift that happens when you become an empty nester. We’ll explore the grief, the guilt, the weird freedom — and how to gently rediscover the you underneath it all.Whether you’re in the thick of it or just peeking around the corner at this next chapter, this one’s for you. Come sit with me. Let’s talk about how to make space for your next becoming.Visit me at @rachelblogglcsw and drop the word RESET and I'll give you a special surprise

Ever try to explain how maxed out you feel—and your partner just doesn’t get it? Maybe they hit you with “Just ask for help!” or “Why didn’t you say anything?” and suddenly you’re fantasizing about throwing a sock at their head.This episode is for every mom who feels emotionally invisible, mentally overloaded, and like she’s carrying 97 tabs open in her brain at all times.In this episode, Rachel is breaking down:Why your partner doesn’t see what you’re carryingHow to communicate your overwhelm without sounding like you're blamingWhat to say that actually lands (no sarcasm translator required)How to advocate for yourself without the guiltBecause you deserve to feel seen, supported, and not like you're silently drowning while your partner asks where the ketchup is.🎧 Listen now, and then send it to your partner as a gentle nudge 😉

Feel like you're failing even when you're trying your absolute best? That’s mom guilt talking—and in this episode, I'm calling it out.I'm diving into where mom guilt actually comes from (hint: it’s not your fault), how to spot when it’s taking over, and therapist-approved ways to quiet that inner critic so you can breathe, reset, and show up as the imperfect-but-awesome mom you already are.You don’t need to be everything to everyone. You just need to hear this.👉 Follow me for more real, relatable mental health support:Instagram: https://instagram.com/rachelblogglcswTikTok: https://tiktok.com/@yourusernameFacebook: https://facebook.com/rachelbloggLCSWYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RachelBlogg-LCSW🧠 Want more no-BS mental health tools? Hit follow, leave a review, and share this episode with another mom who needs to know she's not alone.

In this episode, we’re unpacking the sneaky ways social media messes with your mental health—from comparison spirals and perfectionism to dopamine addiction and fake connection. Rachel breaks down the brain science, throws in some truth bombs, and gives you no-BS tools to take your power back. You don’t need to quit cold turkey—but you do need to log off before you lose yourself in the scroll.Ready to unplug (just a little)? Let’s go.

Ever shared something you’re working on in therapy—only to have it thrown back at you later? In this quick, powerful episode, Rachel dives into why people weaponize your healing, how it impacts you, and how to respond when it happens. You’ll learn boundary-setting scripts, mindset shifts, and how to protect your peace without shutting down your growth. Healing is sacred—you deserve to keep it safe.

In this powerful episode, I’m joined by the incredible Sabrina Victoria, who opens up about how she found herself in a narcissistic abusive relationship, the emotional and mental toll it took on her, and—most importantly—how she found the strength to plan her escape and break free.Sabrina shares the raw, unfiltered truth about the red flags she missed, the manipulation she endured, and the moment everything shifted. Today, she’s not just surviving—she’s thriving. She's creator and CEO of Her Nation Global and host of Her Talk Show. Her story is one of resilience, self-discovery, and empowerment.If you've ever struggled in a toxic relationship or know someone who has, this episode is a must-listen. It’s a reminder that healing is possible, and your story isn’t over.🔗 Tune in now and let Sabrina’s journey inspire your own healing and growth. She can be found at www.sabrinavictoria.com

In this episode, Rachel explores the "Window of Tolerance"—a concept that helps us understand how we respond to stress and regulate our emotions. Learn how to recognize when you're in or out of your window, and discover practical strategies to expand your capacity for resilience. Tune in for insights that can help you navigate life's challenges with greater ease!

In this episode, we’re diving deep into a tough but necessary question: Are you always available when it’s convenient for them, or are you in a relationship where love and effort are mutual? Being a convenient love can be emotionally draining, leaving you feeling unworthy and overlooked. But real love isn’t about convenience—it’s about consistency. Tune in as we unpack the signs, the emotional toll, and how to start choosing the love you truly deserve. ❤️✨#Relationships #SelfWorth #EmotionalHealth #Podcast

Working mom life is hard — and putting yourself first feels impossible. In this episode, we dive into why moms struggle to prioritize themselves, debunk the guilt, and share 4 quick wins to reclaim your time (without the mom guilt). Take a breath — you’ve earned it! 🌸💖Want to participate in my 7 day self-care challenge for working moms then click this link. https://rachelwrites3.gumroad.com/l/sjxog?_gl=1*1xxkxp1*_ga*MTIxMjM2MjYxMi4xNzQyMjI2ODIy*_ga_6LJN6D94N6*MTc0MjMzODkxNC40LjEuMTc0MjMzOTA2MS4wLjAuMA..

In this episode, Rachel talks about how aiming for perfectionism as a therapist (or content creator, blogger etc) can interfere with our clinical work and risk missing subtle cues our clients are giving us, leading to ineffectiveness. This may apply to anyone trying to be "the perfect" XYZ.

In episode 26 Rachel talks about how her shame could’ve held her back from returning today!

In this episode, Rachel shares her in the moment emotions during her drive home after dropping her youngest off at college. We'll hear her tears, feel her pain and learn how she managed all the emotions she was experiencing in real time and didn't act on her urges to turn around and go stay with him or bring him home....both emotion mind thinking! If you're a parent and experiencing so many mixed emotions with being an empty nester....you're not alone! Go ahead and listen. Allow your tears to flow if that's what happens! Don't suppress your sadness, proudness, or anxiety because we all need pain in our lives, we just don't need to sit in them or act on them.

In this episode, Rachel uses nonjudgmental thinking and opposite action to "expose" her secret pleasure of watching reality show, Love Island USA season 6. She shares what skills she uses to bring joy into her life and accepting how some people might judge her for it. Rachel wants you to let go of your judgments about your slf and not care about the judgments others might have about you doing something that brings you joy and is aligned with your morals and values.